Sunday, April 14, 2019

Kemboja Dipetik

15 April 2019, exactly 10 days as a wife to my bestfriend, my boyfriend, my husband, Koobs.

& I've been getting the "How's married life?" question like A. LOT!

Well guys, again, idk haha. For starters, it's pretty great! Not yet lit lah because we're constantly tired from the travelling, wedding business, cleaning the house and what not. So we kind of pissed off each other at times muehehe. Pretty sure once we settled down, everything's going to be awesome pawsome! And of course, it's something we're still discovering. In fact, I've discovered one or two things about my husband now that I had no idea of when we were courting. Like in my face gila because I always dismiss the "dah kahwin baru you akan kenal your husband betul betul"! Oh wells.

Not gonna lie, still feels awkward sharing a house with someone else. Or, having someone to talk to about the littlest things in person. Or, dehijabing in front of another man. Ultimately, having another entity I have to respect because of a bond we uphold.

I'm very used to regarding him as boyfriend, sometimes I forgot the things we used to do could end me up of getting a ticket from the recording angels haha. Like the "cursing jokingly" because that's what we sometimes hahaha ok fine, always did back then - "eff you!". I got told off by Koobs when I did it tsktsk. So I guess, no more? Hahaha

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As of our activities. After our first reception we managed to have a leisure one day stay in Hilton KL. The room was lit and cozy. I want to go there again! Hahaha even Koobs enjoyed the stay! Sanggup nok paksa Koobs pergi Pavi for the sake of  bath bomb lol.

And last week in between our majlis, I have had my marriage leave of 5 days while he was working. As a kinesthetic person, I can't help to tidy the house by myself. Assembled the items we bought from Ikea, cleaned the entire house and rearranged stuff. Decluttered house aka tortured body. Bapak sakit! But when Koobs came back from work, he was such a sweetheart to continue and assist with the house chores. 

And ever since becoming a wife, I have never had my hands on the wheel. WHATADREAM! Thanks Koobs jadi my personal chauffeur to anywhere and everywhere. Backstory: I kept telling Koobs, if he is one day a somebody, the first help I would want and need is definitely a driver! I love the adrenaline of driving really fast like yknow 160km/hr but boy do I like the constant drive and break pedal shifts in the city traffic jam? Please!

Ntah lah nok, I want to share so many things but it feels trivial to tell.

One thing for sure, alhamdulillah ala kulli hal for this life blessings!


Another piece from the solemnisation ceremony - Taman Bukit Chedang, 6 April 2019.
Picture taken by our friend, Hafizul Asyraf.


Overwhelm with love,
Mia Nasir.

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